its sad but a fact of life for most of us however I started finding ways to do things on my own at first the kids said Mom you can't or shouldn't do this or that and I told them get over it Im a grown up I say what I can and can't do stop telling me what I can't do and my Hubby Just lets me do what ever I want now just watches in case I need help its Just because they love you and want to keep you around but they need to understand your feeling. God Bless

Think people are embarrassed by our illness and are completely unable to cope emotionally, they dont know what to say so its easier not to see you! if you change it round and get tickets and then invite them and sa you don't wish to discuss yr illness just chill out you may get a response just know that my family members cant cope with the realisation that a loved be is suffering and they canot do anything, they feel helpless! just make the gesture of a fun tie.

No, I understand completely, my daughter does the same thing to me. I sat her and my husband down and had a heart to heart, I don’t want to feel like I have one leg in the grave and the other on a banana. If you have Netflix please watch Frankie and Grace, this last season (5) goes in deep about this, season six will start in Jan. Or Feb. please watch, you may cry but for sure you will laugh.

I would sit them down and explain how you feel. I have 2 grown daughters they just want to protect you . Your there mom and most girls attract tivthere Dads . Good luck there girls . They do love you but tell them you feel left out and if you felt that day you could not go you wouldn’t .

I just tell them I’ll going I’ll bring my wheel chair I do t want to miss it . Like there lacrosse games I bring my fold up bleacher chair with a back and watch the game .I believe where there is a Will there is a way . You may not always feel like going but my hubby is a big help for me . The more I’m around my grands the better I feel ♥️